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348 Botsford Street
 Newmarket
Ontario L3Y 1S6
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December 2008

To all our friends and family, we wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

If not exactly an annus horribilis, 2008 has not been a stellar year. We are very late getting any preparations for Christmas as Richard has been laid low for the past 7 weeks with a dose of the shingles which even now, seems quite a way from clearing up - I believe it's now a matter of Post Herpetic Neuralgia - aches & pains and not a lot of energy. There doesn't seem to be much that the medics can offer to try and speed up the healing.


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Grace is now a 2-year old and a bundle of fun.  We don't see her nearly as often as last year when Janet was on maternity leave, perhaps once a month on average.  The family was here for a birthday party on 7th December but only Don & Pat made it on Ian's side, thanks to a snowstorm around Creemore where Ian's sisters live.

Photo left - she loves the pockets in the dress Mary made for her birthday
Photo right - Grace has a music lesson with her Uncle Dave

She has a great sense of humour, and gets on famously at daycare, which is run by a Newfoundland lady in her house.  It gives her great interaction with other children.

Grace and Dave
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With the somewhat unwelcome prospect of having to move house in 2009, we started 2008 with a re-modelling of the sun room on he back of the house.  Ian and Richard laid down a new composite pseudo-wood floor, and installed new cupboards and window blinds, plus of course painting. I find that as a 70-year old, I don't get projects completed nearly as quickly as I used to.

The other major challenge is to clear out 40 years-worth of accumulated "stuff".  I was making some progress on that before the shingles put a stop to all that.  It's a good thing we have a huge garage, where there is now a massive pile of junk to go in a big dumpster.   In the New Year, I'll have to begin organizing a Garage Sale for the spring, and get back to having Janet & Dave remove all their clutter which they left behind when they moved out.

I think we can probably hold in financially until next fall before moving, but we have to find somewhere much smaller with lower running costs. The credit crunch and financial turmoil of late have hit our retirement funds pretty hard.  We haven't dared to look into our main portfolio, but I know that one commodity stock (very blue-chip 18 months ago) that we hold is now worth 10% of what we paid for it.  At least I don't think that the value of our house has dropped too badly, if at all - Botsford is now reckoned by many to be one of the best streets in town as it is central, and being one-way, attracts very little traffic.

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Photo left - Nicole & Grace at the cottage in New Brunswick.

The happiest event of the year was the engagement of Dave & Nicole.  They were with us at the cottage at the time, and Dave proposed on their last night there, giving Nicole a ring which was re-modelled from Mary's mum's ring.

There are still no definite wedding plans (or date).  They would like to have one of these Caribbean or Mexican resort weddings, but the cost of ferrying all the family there would be quite pricey.  So, maybe something local, but in any case, probably not involving much more than family.



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Once again, we were in New Brunswick for close to six weeks in July & August. The weather in July was passable, but deteriorated greatly in August with every day threatening rain or showers, which materialized most days.

The photo on left is our cottage, and the one on the right is the view from the screened-in porch looking across the Richibucto river.  It's always nice when we can have our meals out on the porch. We met Bob & Jane just for lunch one day, also a lunch with Gary & Pat Condon, whom we haven't seen in over 30 years.


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We also spent a night at the Downtown B&B in Moncton, which was Mary's childhood home when it was the rectory. Very pleasant, and we were also able to attend a Sunday morning service at St George's where Mary's Dad was Rector from 1932-1966.  We were treated almost like royalty, and were delighted to find at least a few parishioners that we knew.

Janet, Ian, Grace, Dave and Nicole all flew down from Toronto, rented an SUV and spent just over a week with us.  The weather was very wet, but that didn't stop them all from doing a lot of sight-seeing in the area.  After the Urquharts flew back home, Dave & Nicole spent a week on Prince Edward Island, visiting Nicole's relatives - her father was from PEI.  They had a lovely time, and it wouldn't take much for them to move permanently to Charlottetown, apart from the prospect of not much work, which I guess is somewhat important.

We're still very much involved with the church music, with the regular Adult Choir I remain web verger for Trinity www.trinityaurora.ca which takes several hours work each week, plus miscellaneous other jobs around the church. Again, I have done very little organ playing lately, one funeral and a clergy pre-Lenten day has been about the lot this year. However,  I'm playing Christmas morning again for the 29th year. Maybe the last if we move out of the Greater Toronto area, which might be a possibility.

And if so, Mary would greatly miss the Thursday morning Bible Study Group she has attended for 21 years, and the monthly Book Club where she has been going to their meetings for 34 years.

Again, we hope you have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Richard & Mary